S) "8 Do not reprove a scoffer, or he will hate you,
Reprove a wise man and he will love you."
Proverbs 9:8 (NASB)
*because there are already entries for each of these chapters, I also read Proverbs 9
*because there are already entries for each of these chapters, I also read Proverbs 9
O) The verse before and after this one, expound a little bit on this verse. Just before it, we are told that correcting a scoffer or a wicked man, can mean dishonor or injury. Just after this verse, we are told that a wise or righteous man will benefit from teaching or instruction. This verse is a little bit like the short command Jesus gave, not to cast pearls before swine. There are people who will not accept wisdom for what it is, no matter how reasonable or beneficial it might be. Trying to do so will actually backfire, and create the opposite effects that were intended. On the other hand, a wise man will actually appreciate correction, recognizing that it is good for him.
A) The obvious use of this verse, is to remind me not to try and correct a scoffer. I need to be careful about giving advice, that the person will actually receive it. If they don't want it, then I should keep my mouth shut, regardless of what knowledge, insight, or wisdom I might have. On the other hand, if I know someone truly seeks knowledge, then any help or direction I can give, I should give freely. The other use of this verse, is as a sort of barometer for my level of haughtiness. If someone comes to me with advice, correction, or reproof, my reaction should be thankfulness. If I am wise, then I will love the man who reproves me. On the other hand, if my reaction is scornful, then I need to recognize I have a problem, because I am obviously not seeking wisdom at that point (as I always should be).
P) Father, You are holy and wise. You correct Your children because You love us. You are a perfect Father, and in Your relationships You always act perfectly. Help me be wise in my relationships. Open my eyes to see when silence is the better part of prudence. Help me to see when wisdom will not be received, so that I am not spinning my wheels for nothing. At the same time, I don't want to miss any opportunity to share the gospel, shed light, or spread hope, life, and peace. So, give me the wisdom and courage, to speak up when someone is lacking direction. Help me to give instruction where someone needs it. I pray that I have the grace and mercy that You gave me, for other people. Let me always accept reproof with humility and thanksgiving. Help me to always realize the wisdom in other people's words. Ultimately, be glorified in my life, by the counsel I keep and the counsel I give. Let Your will be done. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.
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