S) "15 He said to the people, 'Be ready for the third day; do not go near a woman.'"
Exodus 19:15 (NASB)
O) Moses was preparing the people for an encounter with the LORD at Mount Sinai. He came down from the mountain, after talking with God, and he consecrated the people, and they washed their garments. Then, he spoke the curious words in the above verse. Initially, this verse seems to be oppressive and judgmental. It seems to be accusing women of being contaminated. However, when we consider some of the context, I think this is speaking to something else. These people were about to encounter God in a way that they had never experienced. They were about to get a lesson in holiness that could prove fatal. Staying away from a woman was not about any physical cleanliness, or even a symbolic one. I think this was an attempt by Moses to cover all bases. This was the spiritual equivalent of saying, "better safe than sorry." Moses, I think, was trying to get all distractions set aside, so that the people would focus all of their attention on the LORD. In a sense, this could be seen as a mandatory celibacy in that manner of fasting.
A) There is another biblical reference to celibacy fasting in 1 Corinthians 7:5, but admittedly, I have never done this in my marriage. There are two main elements of a fast. First, it needs to create a loss in order to be effective. I cannot reasonably say that I'm going to fast from television, if I do not miss television when it's gone. On the other hand, if I fast from food, I feel it significantly. I cannot say that I'm fasting from soda pop, when I seldom drink the stuff anyway. However, saying that I'm fasting from videogames could be quite effective. The second element, is that the fast must be a constant reminder, drawing my mind to think about the "why" of my fast. This type of fast would pretty well fit both of these elements to fasting. It's not a necessary step, in as much as the verse above is not a timeless instruction (I can't take it out of context and use it as a modern statute), but It's something to consider the next time I fast.
P) Father, You are worthy of my obedience in every way. You deserve my obedience in every part of my life. While it might seem quite hard to consider this type of thing to be a fast, You're worth all of the hardest things. The next time there is an important situation, which needs prayer and fasting, remind me of this passage (and the verse from the New Testament), and let me prayerfully consider if this type of fast would be effective. I want to draw closer to You, Father God, and I know that denying my own self, denying my flesh and its desires, will only prove to draw me closer to You. Open my eyes to see and my ears to hear. Let me approach You with great reverence, with every distraction laid aside. Help me to stay focused on You. In Jesus' name I pray. Amen.