S) "2 If one ventures a word with you, will you become impatient?
But who can refrain from speaking?"
Job 4:2 (NASB)
O) When Job began to speak, after a week of silence spent with his friends (see Job 2:13), his words were mostly lament at being born at all (see chapter 3). So now, we have the first response of his friends (this one from Eliphaz). As he explains in the following few verses, they knew Job to be a wise man, who had counseled many other people through various troubles. So, now the tables were turned. Before even trying to give advice, Eliphaz wants to set the expectation for their discussion. If Job wasn't even going to hear them out, there would be no point in discussing things at all. Even still, Eliphaz felt he could not stop himself from giving his opinion on the matter.
A) There are two ways to view this verse, and it really depends on how I see myself connecting to these two men. If I am the in a position of needing counsel, then I need to carefully consider this question directly to me. Am I going to be patient, when people have something to say about my life and the circumstances I face? Will I be able to hear them out, and be humble, and be teachable? Will I be ready to hear admonishing words, or even rebuking? On the other hand, if I am in a position like Eliphaz, and someone else is going through something, I should carefully consider who they are. I should acknowledge that their circumstance may be unique and unprecedented for them. I should also approach the conversation delicately, and try to disarm any feelings of defensiveness or hostility. When it seems like I cannot ignore something, and I cannot help but bring something up, then I should first ask the person if they will even hear me out.
P) Father, Your counsel is always perfect, and Your wisdom and authority are complete. If ever I am needing counsel, let me first turn to You, searching Your word, and praying for wisdom and understanding. Beyond that, when I seek other wise counsel, from trustworthy Christians, let me be humble and teachable, and to lay aside my own history of counseling others. Help me to disregard any feelings of pride, and patiently hear people who are lovingly trying to help me. On the other side, let me always approach people carefully, when I am in a position to give advice. Let me carefully consider Your Word, and how it should apply to their circumstances. Before I actually give anyone counsel, remind me to start humbly, by asking if they even want my advice. If they will be patient and hear me out, then let me present biblical answers to their circumstances, as You lead and give me wisdom. In every way be glorified, whether I am receiving counsel or giving it. In Jesus's name I pray. Amen.
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