S) "10 If the axe is dull and he does not sharpen its edge, then he must exert more strength. Wisdom has the advantage of giving success."
Ecclesiastes 10:10 (NASB)
*because there are already entries for each of these chapters, I also read Ecclesiastes 10
*because there are already entries for each of these chapters, I also read Ecclesiastes 10
O) Most of this chapter reads like the Proverbs, not specifically fitting the narrative of the rest of the book, which carries a lot of existential-type questions. The verse above certainly has that contrasting, self-contained context, that makes it easy to identify and apply what it means. In this case, the analogy of a lumberjack, shows us the importance of evaluation. Methods and opinions should be evaluated to be sure they are still effective. If this is not done, the circumstances will become more and more difficult. This is why wisdom has the advantage of giving success, because it is wise to re-evaluate things.
A) The very first thing that occurred to me, because this is where I am in life, is in the area of parenting. Each of my kids have unique personalities, struggles, and abilities. Because of this, I cannot use a blanket approach to discipline. While the standards of right behaviors, and what is expected in the culture of our family, is the same for all three of them, the consequences or methods may vary from child to child. As a parent, it is vital to my success and their future, that I continue to evaluate what is working and what is not working, in terms of their discipline and what is expected of them, individually. This should all be done with wise counsel, the foremost of which should be my wife. It is important that I am having frequent dialogues with her about what we're doing with each of our kids, and what we expect of them, and what we hope to accomplish with them. There are very many ways the principles of this verse should be applied. In marriage, in my daily work, in my career goals, in ministry opportunities, in friendships, etc. All of those things can be prioritized, but the important thing is that I am adopting the practice of self-evaluation to every area of my life. In exercising self-control, what is working and what is not working? In strengthening my marriage, what is working and what isn't working? On and on, this should be my regular practice. While I think it is normal for me already, on some levels, there are always areas that still need a lot of sharpening. Discipline for my kids just happens to be it right now.
P) Father, thank You for sharpening me. I submit to You for discipline, Lord. I know it's not pleasant when it's happening, but I also know the promise I have. You are a good Father, and Your discipline is always effective. I want to be a son who honors You in every way. I love You, Father God, and I want my life to reflect that. Please give me wisdom, the insight I need to discipline my kids, lately. Remind me to have more regular discussions with Kristin about how to discipline our kids. Help us to find the right balance between addressing their hearts with grace and mercy, and addressing their behaviors with justice and consequences. Thank You for the grace You have already been working in me, that our marriage has been consistently reevaluated by us. Help me extend this practice to other areas of my life, too. Help me find success, according to Your will and Your definition. All of this to Your glory alone. In Jesus's name I pray. Amen.
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